Have you ever whispered, “I’m so tired, but I'm not giving up”? If that's you, then you've come to the right place.
This post is for the single parent or any parent who feels single, for the single mom, dad, or lovingly dedicated caretaker who wakes up before the sun and stays up long after everyone else is asleep. This is for the one who’s balancing responsibilities, emotions, decisions, and prayers... all on their own. The one who keeps going, on their own, even when it’s hard.
In this post, you’ll find heartfelt encouragement for single parents and all parents who are tired but not giving up. You’ll be reminded that your quiet strength matters, your hard work is seen, and your perseverance is shaping future generations. With faith-filled words, supportive scripture, and a helpful printable resource, this post will lift your spirit and remind you. You are not alone.
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What Does “Tired But Not Giving Up” Mean?

The phrase “tired but not giving up” means that even though you’re drained, discouraged, or heart-weary, you’re still showing up. You’re still fighting for your children, holding on to hope, and choosing to believe that this season won’t last forever. It means:
- Being present for your child even when you're emotionally exhausted.
- Making ends meet when you don’t know how you’re going to do it again next month.
- Trusting God to fill the gaps when your own strength has run dry.
You’re not giving up. You’re pressing on. And that is the definition of strength.
What Are Some Challenges Faced by Single Parents?
Being a single parent is one of the hardest, most selfless callings... and it often comes with challenges that few people talk about:
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Doing it all alone: You’re the one making meals, folding laundry, helping with homework, setting boundaries, and calming fears.
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Financial stress: Providing for a family on one income and/or with little or no consistent support is heavy.
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Loneliness: You may long for adult conversation, emotional support, or someone to share your joys and fears with.
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Decision fatigue: From school choices to discipline to medical care, you make every decision on your own.
- Feeling overlooked: It can seem like the world sees families in groups, and you’re stuck in the background. But you are not forgotten.
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18 (NIV)
If you’ve felt these struggles... you’re not alone. You are doing the work of two people. You are loving, guiding, protecting, and providing... all on your own.
If you’re tired but not giving up, you are already doing more than enough. God honors your strength... even when you don’t feel strong.
God Sees What You’re Carrying
Being a single parent is a kind of strength most people will never fully understand.
It’s carrying the emotional weight of two people. It’s staying up late to pay bills, wiping tears at midnight, comforting sick kids while silently praying for strength. It’s being the nurturer, the disciplinarian, the encourager, the provider... all at once.
And while some people may overlook the sacrifices you make... God doesn’t.
“You see me, you watch over my coming and going.” Psalm 121:8 (NIV)
God sees the moments you don’t share. He sees when you cry all alone in your car. He sees when you speak life over your child even when your own heart feels empty. He sees when you choose forgiveness, courage, and love again and again.
He sees when you're tired but not giving up... when you're stretched thin but still loving, still praying, still hoping, still trying.
You are not invisible. Your effort is seen. Your faithfulness is felt.
You Are Building a Legacy
Every time you choose to keep going... when it would be easier to give up... you are laying down a legacy. Your child is watching. Your community is watching. And heaven is cheering you on.
You are showing what real love looks like: sacrificial, faithful, and enduring. That matters.
Every time you're tired but not giving up, you're leaving a legacy of faith and perseverance that your children will carry with them.
“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Galatians 6:9 (NIV)
Your Faithfulness Is Changing the World
Every meal you make, every prayer you whisper, every hug you give... it all matters.
You’re not just surviving. You’re shaping the heart of your child. You’re influencing your community. You’re lighting a path for someone who’s watching you and thinking, “If they can keep going, maybe I can too.”
Being tired but not giving up may not get you applause... but it builds quiet, world-changing strength inside your home and heart.
Your faith, your love, and your perseverance are doing more than you know.
Encouraging Resource for Single Parents
If your heart needs a gentle reset, check out:
Bible Verse Printables for Moms
Each card includes Scripture, encouragement, and a heartfelt prayer—perfect for the days when you're barely hanging on. Keep them by your coffee mug or in your Bible for a daily lift.
Final Words for You
You may not always feel strong... but the fact that you’re still standing proves that you are.
Tired but not giving up? That’s where your strength shines brightest. Your children may not fully understand it now, but one day they’ll look back and say, “My parent never gave up on me.”
God sees every effort. Every quiet tear. Every late-night prayer. And while the world may rush past, He pauses for you. He honors you.
So today, take a deep breath. Pour a cup of coffee. Whisper a prayer. And remember... even when you’re tired but not giving up, you are deeply loved. You don’t have to do it alone.
FAQs About Single Parenting and Faith
Q: What does the Bible say about single parents?
A: While the Bible doesn’t use the term “single parent,” it speaks often of God’s care for the fatherless, widows, and those carrying heavy burdens. Psalm 68:5 calls God “a father to the fatherless.” He walks closely with those raising children on their own.
Q: How can I stay strong as a single parent?
A: Lean on God daily. Build small routines of prayer, Scripture reading, and community support. Don’t underestimate the power of rest, encouragement, and faith-filled habits... especially when you feel weak.
Q: Is it okay to feel exhausted and still love God?
A: Yes. Being tired doesn’t mean you’ve failed. God understands your humanity and loves you deeply in your weariness. His strength is made perfect in your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).
Q: How can I encourage another single parent?
A: Sometimes a kind word, a shared coffee, or a simple “you’re doing great” means the world. Share resources like devotionals or prayer cards, and remind them that their effort is seen by God.
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